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.What the deal with the name The Club 249? What does it mean?
What are these events anyway?
Can only big people go to these?
What is the atmosphere like in these events?
How
should I dress?
Are
You have pool parties? What is that about?
Are you open this weekend?
How do I get there?
What should I wear?
What kind of people come to the events?
I've heard about the pajama parties, tell me the real deal!
What is the ratio of men to women?
Are you open during the week?
I'm only 18, can I get in?
Do we have to park 3 blocks away?
I'm not a big man, can I get in?
Will you let skinny women in?
How can I talk to people who have been to Club 249?
How can I get on the mailing list?
Can I reserve a booth or table for a special event?
What's next for Club 249?
What the deal with the name The Club 249? What does it mean?
Well
lets see....look at your phone, now think of the Big Girls World
(BGW)...249 corresponds with BGW. It's funny because she
started to call it 250 and the slogan would have said, "You must be
this big to ride this ride." But, we thought it would be too
sexual so we decided against it. Plus, our founder's birthday
is the 24th and the rest of her family's birthday is in September
(9th month)...thus 249. But, the thought of the birthdays came
after the fact. We just thought it was cute.
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Our events are parties and social gatherings that bring together people of size their friends and admirers. What does that really mean? It means that if you're a big girl, big guy, guy who loves big girls, girl who loves big dudes, a couple with a big partner (or two!), friends with a big girl or guy, or whatever, then you can come and hang out and have a good time with us. Our goal is to have a comfortable, casual atmosphere for people to hang out, and mingle.
Cause we
wanna!
Seriously, we have these dances because, unfortunately, we do not
yet live in a society were bigger people always feel comfortable
going to regular bars and clubs to dance, laugh and flirt. They
sometimes feel as though they are the only larger person around, and
that they may be out of place. We don't believe this is always the
case, but we strive to provide a safe, fun place where people can
come and dress up a bit (maybe a short skirt, rather than down to
your ankles), and dance like no one is watching. And, if you are a
big girl or guy, where else can you go where you know each and every
person will be attracted to you? And, if you are a Big
Girl/Dude admirer...where else can you go where that's all you would
be surrounded by? Nuff said....
Can only big people go to these?
Of course not! Our events are NOT size exclusive. The majority of
the girls who attend our dances are big, but we get some "smaller"
girls who tag along with friends for support, and they have a great
time! We get men of all shapes and sizes. In fact, we often get
asked by "smaller" guys if they will be out of place ("Is it weird
that I'm a thinner guy and I like big girls?") Not at all!! We get
all walks of life, and the majority of men who come are not what
you'd call "big" dudes. If you are supportive of our purpose, then
you are welcome to attend. Any race, gender or sexual orientation is
welcome to join us as well - if you're friendly and respectful,
we'll welcome you with open arms.
Who can go to these? Is there a membership or something?
Anyone may attend our dances who is over 21 years old. There is no
membership, there is no secret handshake, RSVP, or special invite.
If you want to come, come!
Our regular event admission is $10. We do run specials via email, so
watch them carefully!! Special events, such as weekend-long events,
etc. will have special pricing which will be listed on the website
or in emails. Generally, dances held during weekend-long and/or
special events are $20.
How many people attend these events?
Our events range in size, depending on time of year, location, weather, etc.
What is the age range of people who go to these events?
Our guests range in age. We welcome anyone 21 or over to most
events. Our average crowd is from mid 20s to late 30s, with
quite a substantial amount between 25-38. But, we do have many
guests that are well into their 40s, 50s, and beyond... everyone and
anyone with a good attitude and friendly smile is welcome to join
us!
No, it's not. Although the majority of our crowd is single people, we have many couples as well. Some met at our events, others have been together, but wanted a welcoming, non-judgmental place to go out and have a nice time together.
What is the atmosphere like in these events?
It's a fun, casual, welcoming atmosphere. The events themselves have a different look and feel depending on where they are held and the theme for that night. Our events are primarily held in the Hilton Suites Ballroom, with a dance floor, DJ and a bar. The tables are mixed, usually rounds that sit 6. There is also a separate area that we use when the ballroom area reaches capacity.
This is a question we get quite often, and there is really no good
answer other than, be yourself and be comfortable. We have people
who dress in everything from jeans and t-shirts to dressy evening
gowns. We have no dress code, but do ask that you not wear anything
that will be overly revealing (meaning, please don't go braless
while wearing a see-through lace shirt). If we are notified about
overly revealing clothing, nudity, lewd advances, or overt sexual
behavior on the premises or parking area, it can result in us
escorting you off the premises and you not getting a refund.
Otherwise, if you are comfortable, you will put your best face
forward and have a good time. Sometimes people come who are a bit
shocked to see girls in short skirts and little tops. Don't be.
These events promote a kind of self-acceptance that isn't found in
many other places, strut your stuff if you feel comfortable doing
so! If you don't, that's fine as well... we are not all going to
like the same styles, clothes etc. We're all there to have a good
time and live it up a little... enjoy!
Is it going to be weird if I come alone?
Not at all! People come alone all the time, it's just a fact. Men
often come alone, and it's not a big deal. Don't worry about it!
Women will often come with a couple of friends, but many come alone
the first time. It's natural to be a bit nervous, and we completely
understand.
How do I meet people in advance?
One way to avoid coming alone is trying to meet up with some other
party-goers before you attend. Our Yahoo Group message board is
GREAT ways to do that. You can post a message, chat with other
people who attend and maybe even set up a way to meet somewhere
before you head into the dance. Some people find it less
intimidating to go with with a friendly face. Just say hello on the
boards, you'll be surprised who will extend a friendly hand to help
you out. You can also attend our periodic meet-and-greets
to meet people in the club and get better acquainted.
The smoking rules in Georgia have made it that all smoking indoors is prohibited. Our location provides an outside area for those wishing to smoke just outside the premises.
I don't really dance, should I even bother coming?
Of course you should come!!!! We have guests who never hit the dance floor, it's not a requirement. The events are sometimes called dances, but that's just an aspect of them. Many people just chat, hang out, have a few drinks and laughs. It's just a social atmosphere, so dancing is completely optional... but it's always fun to dance or watch.
Our DJ, plays lots of different things. Anytime you get such a large
group of people together, it's hard to please them all, especially
with music. Sets include R&B, hip-hop, slow songs, old-school, and
some Reggae. We will also play requests as well, so if there
is something you want to hear, just go up (early!) and ask him. If
he has the song and the time, he'll play it - it's that easy!
Are there after-hours parties?
The Club 249 does not hold any organized after-hours parties unless
it is a pool party, or a hospitality gathering (which we include
sometimes during our weekend-long events). If there are after-hours
parties among our guests, that is something completely unrelated to
The Club 249 and would just be a gathering among friends.
Okay, what are these weekend-long events you've mentioned??
We figured you'd ask that. Well, once a year we have our extended event
called our "Birthday Bash" that falls over the weekend before the
Memorial Day weekend in May. On these weekends, we
have events that span from Friday to Sunday morning, and usually
include 2 dances, special lunch events/games (which are LOVED by
all!), and a farewell gathering. There are also usually
pool parties, hospitality suites, etc. This event will require
pre-registration, and many times you will save
cash if you pre-register... so make sure you check it out! We have a
great time, and if you want to get a full experience, these can be a
great way to do so. We get people who travel from all over the
US to attend our events.
You have pool parties? What is that about?
Our
location has a wonderful heated pool, and when possible, we schedule
pool parties with our events. We expect
that anyone swimming will be wearing proper swim attire. You are NOT
allowed to swim naked. If you do not have a suit, and would like to
swim in a make-shift outfit, that's fine. It may not be anything
that will be see-through when wet. If you are swimming in underwear,
it must be full coverage (girls, this means no g-strings, etc). We
have an obligation to our hotel to maintain a level of decency in
their public areas, and we will do that. Anyone who behaves or
dresses inappropriately will be asked to change, or leave.
How is the parking and accessibility?
All of our events have very good, well lit parking available, and are in very accessible locations.
At our events always reserve a group of rooms in the hotel at a discounted rate for our guests. We have many
people who travel from distances, or like to have a few drinks and
be responsible by staying overnight at the hotel. Our goal is to try
to get you a lower rate so that these options are more attractive
should you need them. We also have people who come and bunk-up four
to a room. It works out cheaper for all, and they can make a
mini-weekend of it.
We always have our monthly themed parties and we are also in the planning process of a weekend long bash. So, make sure you keep checking back. It's going to be crazy!!!
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