Here are a list of commonly asked questions, if you have one that you think should be added, please email us  and we will be sure to answer it for you!

.What the deal with the name The Club 249?  What does it mean?
What are these events anyway?
Why do you have them?
Can only big people go to these?
Who can go to these? Is there a membership or something?
What does it cost?
How many people attend these events?
What is the age range of people who go to these events?
Is it all single people?
What is the atmosphere like in these events?
How should I dress?
Is it going to be weird if I come alone?
How do I meet people in advance?
What is the smoking policy?
I don't really dance, should I even bother coming?
What is the music like?
Are
there after-hours parties?
Okay, what are these weekend-long events you've mentioned?
You have pool parties? What is that about?
How is the parking and accessibility?
What are hotel room blocks?
Are you open this weekend?
How do I get there?
What should I wear?
What kind of people come to the events?
I've heard about the pajama parties, tell me the real deal!
What is the ratio of men to women?
Are you open during the week?
I'm only 18, can I get in?
Do we have to park 3 blocks away?
I'm not a big man, can I get in?
Will you let skinny women in?
How can I talk to people who have been to Club 249?
How can I get on the mailing list?
Can I reserve a booth or table for a special event?
What's next for Club 249?

 

What the deal with the name The Club 249?  What does it mean?

Well lets see....look at your phone, now think of the Big Girls World (BGW)...249 corresponds with BGW.  It's funny because she started to call it 250 and the slogan would have said, "You must be this big to ride this ride."  But, we thought it would be too sexual so we decided against it.  Plus, our founder's birthday is the 24th and the rest of her family's birthday is in September (9th month)...thus 249.  But, the thought of the birthdays came after the fact.  We just thought it was cute. 

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What are these events anyway?

Our events are parties and social gatherings that bring together people of size their friends and admirers. What does that really mean? It means that if you're a big girl, big guy, guy who loves big girls, girl who loves big dudes, a couple with a big partner (or two!), friends with a big girl or guy, or whatever, then you can come and hang out and have a good time with us. Our goal is to have a comfortable, casual atmosphere for people to hang out, and mingle.

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Why do you have them?

Cause we wanna! Seriously, we have these dances because, unfortunately, we do not yet live in a society were bigger people always feel comfortable going to regular bars and clubs to dance, laugh and flirt. They sometimes feel as though they are the only larger person around, and that they may be out of place. We don't believe this is always the case, but we strive to provide a safe, fun place where people can come and dress up a bit (maybe a short skirt, rather than down to your ankles), and dance like no one is watching. And, if you are a big girl or guy, where else can you go where you know each and every person will be attracted to you?  And, if you are a Big Girl/Dude admirer...where else can you go where that's all you would be surrounded by?  Nuff said....

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Can only big people go to these?

Of course not! Our events are NOT size exclusive. The majority of the girls who attend our dances are big, but we get some "smaller" girls who tag along with friends for support, and they have a great time! We get men of all shapes and sizes. In fact, we often get asked by "smaller" guys if they will be out of place ("Is it weird that I'm a thinner guy and I like big girls?") Not at all!! We get all walks of life, and the majority of men who come are not what you'd call "big" dudes. If you are supportive of our purpose, then you are welcome to attend. Any race, gender or sexual orientation is welcome to join us as well - if you're friendly and respectful, we'll welcome you with open arms.

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Who can go to these? Is there a membership or something?

Anyone may attend our dances who is over 21 years old. There is no membership, there is no secret handshake, RSVP, or special invite. If you want to come, come!

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What does it cost?

Our regular event admission is $10. We do run specials via email, so watch them carefully!! Special events, such as weekend-long events, etc. will have special pricing which will be listed on the website or in emails. Generally, dances held during weekend-long and/or special events are $20.

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How many people attend these events?

Our events range in size, depending on time of year, location, weather, etc.

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What is the age range of people who go to these events?

Our guests range in age. We welcome anyone 21 or over to most events.  Our average crowd is from mid 20s to late 30s, with quite a substantial amount between 25-38. But, we do have many guests that are well into their 40s, 50s, and beyond... everyone and anyone with a good attitude and friendly smile is welcome to join us!

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Is it all single people?

No, it's not.  Although the majority of our crowd is single people, we have many couples as well.  Some met at our events, others have been together, but wanted a welcoming, non-judgmental place to go out and have a nice time together.

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What is the atmosphere like in these events?

It's a fun, casual, welcoming atmosphere. The events themselves have a different look and feel depending on where they are held and the theme for that night. Our events are primarily held in the Hilton Suites Ballroom, with a dance floor, DJ and a bar. The tables are mixed, usually rounds that sit 6.  There is also a separate area that we use when the ballroom area reaches capacity.

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How should I dress?

This is a question we get quite often, and there is really no good answer other than, be yourself and be comfortable. We have people who dress in everything from jeans and t-shirts to dressy evening gowns. We have no dress code, but do ask that you not wear anything that will be overly revealing (meaning, please don't go braless while wearing a see-through lace shirt). If we are notified about overly revealing clothing, nudity, lewd advances, or overt sexual behavior on the premises or parking area, it can result in us escorting you off the premises and you not getting a refund.  Otherwise, if you are comfortable, you will put your best face forward and have a good time. Sometimes people come who are a bit shocked to see girls in short skirts and little tops. Don't be. These events promote a kind of self-acceptance that isn't found in many other places, strut your stuff if you feel comfortable doing so! If you don't, that's fine as well... we are not all going to like the same styles, clothes etc. We're all there to have a good time and live it up a little... enjoy! We will also have a lot of themed events and ask that you participate.

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Is it going to be weird if I come alone?

Not at all! People come alone all the time, it's just a fact. Men often come alone, and it's not a big deal. Don't worry about it! Women will often come with a couple of friends, but many come alone the first time. It's natural to be a bit nervous, and we completely understand. By the end of the night they make many new friends! Remember, because you're at a size-friendly event, open ONLY to our members & guests, there's no reason to feel shy or self-conscious.

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How do I meet people in advance?

One way to avoid coming alone is trying to meet up with some other party-goers before you attend. Our Yahoo Group message board is GREAT ways to do that. You can post a message, chat with other people who attend and maybe even set up a way to meet somewhere before you head into the dance. Some people find it less intimidating to go with with a friendly face. Just say hello on the boards, you'll be surprised who will extend a friendly hand to help you out.  You can also attend our periodic meet-and-greets to meet people in the club and get better acquainted.

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What is the smoking policy?

The smoking rules in Georgia have made it that all smoking indoors is prohibited. Our location provides an outside area for those wishing to smoke just outside the premises.

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I don't really dance, should I even bother coming?

Of course you should come!!!! We have guests who never hit the dance floor, it's not a requirement. The events are sometimes called dances, but that's just an aspect of them. Many people just chat, hang out, have a few drinks and laughs. It's just a social atmosphere, so dancing is completely optional... but it's always fun to dance or watch.

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What is the music like?

Our DJ, plays lots of different things. Anytime you get such a large group of people together, it's hard to please them all, especially with music. Sets include R&B, hip-hop, slow songs, old-school, and some Reggae.  We will also play requests as well, so if there is something you want to hear, just go up (early!) and ask him. If he has the song and the time, he'll play it - it's that easy! The music is loud and the sound system is state of the art and our DJs are some of the best in the world!

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Are there after-hours parties?

The Club 249 does not hold any organized after-hours parties unless it is a pool party, or a hospitality gathering (which we include sometimes during our weekend-long events). If there are after-hours parties among our guests, that is something completely unrelated to The Club 249 and would just be a gathering among friends.

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Okay, what are these weekend-long events you've mentioned??

We figured you'd ask that. Well, once a year we have our extended event called our "Birthday Bash" that falls over the weekend before the Memorial Day weekend in May.  On these weekends, we have events that span from Friday to Sunday morning, and usually include 2 dances, special lunch events/games (which are LOVED by all!), and a farewell gathering. There are also usually pool parties, hospitality suites, etc. This event will require pre-registration, and many times you will save cash if you pre-register... so make sure you check it out! We have a great time, and if you want to get a full experience, these can be a great way to do so. We get people who travel from all over the US to attend our events.

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You have pool parties? What is that about?

Our location has a wonderful heated pool, and when possible, we schedule pool parties with our events. We expect that anyone swimming will be wearing proper swim attire. You are NOT allowed to swim naked. If you do not have a suit, and would like to swim in a make-shift outfit, that's fine. It may not be anything that will be see-through when wet. If you are swimming in underwear, it must be full coverage (girls, this means no g-strings, etc). We have an obligation to our hotel to maintain a level of decency in their public areas, and we will do that. Anyone who behaves or dresses inappropriately will be asked to change, or leave.

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How is the parking and accessibility?

All of our events have very good, well lit parking available, and are in very accessible locations.

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What are hotel room blocks?

At our events always reserve a group of rooms in the hotel at a discounted rate for our guests. We have many people who travel from distances, or like to have a few drinks and be responsible by staying overnight at the hotel. Our goal is to try to get you a lower rate so that these options are more attractive should you need them. We also have people who come and bunk-up four to a room. It works out cheaper for all, and they can make a mini-weekend of it.

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Are you guys open this weekend?

It depends, if you look at the upcoming events calendar, we may be.  However, we are not open every weekend.  So, be sure you check it out first.

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How do I get there?

Click here for detailed door-to-door directions.

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What should I wear?

We have themed parties almost every time.  We ask that you dress in that month's theme because it makes it more fun and you just might win a prize for the evening. Other than that, you can come casual.  Right now, we like people to be comfortable, so you can come fly and flashy or cool and casual....it's up to you.  You can wear jeans if you would like also.

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What kind of people come to the club?

Obviously you will find big, thick, sexy and pretty women at the events, along with all different types of men who can't resist us.  They come in all shapes and sizes....short, tall, big and small.  We also get people of all sizes that love the energy of our events.  We have even spotted well know celebrities and athletes many weekends.  Check out our party pictures to see some of the people who have come and had a good time at Club 249!

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I've heard about the pajama parties, tell me the real deal!

We celebrate our curves in lingerie at "Pillow Talk", our infamous pajama party.  People come dressed in pajamas, lingerie, flannels, fuzzy slippers, or just plain casual clothes.  The atmosphere is fun and flirty...much like a sexy, fun house party.  You are not required to wear pajamas or lingerie though.

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What's the ratio of men to women?

The ratio has mostly been pretty even.  Sometimes, we do lean slightly towards more females with a LOT of new people coming to each event.  Come out and see for yourself or check out our party pictures here!

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Are you open during the week?

Not at this time.

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I'm only 18, can I get in?

Unfortunately, the liquor license only allows us to have 21 year olds and over to be allowed into our events.  And we can NOT make exceptions to this, so please don't even ask.

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I see where the location of your event is, do we have to park far away?

Not at all!  The venue has parking on site.  Some of our venues charge a small fee for secured parking of you may find your own parking for free at your own risk.

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I'm not a big man, can I get in?

Most of the men who come to the parties are average size or athletic, but ANY many who can't resist thick and sexy women is welcome!  Besides, we have so many sexy, confident ladies in the party, you should let nothing stop you from coming to party with us.

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Will you let skinny women in?

Clearly the majority of the women who come to our events are thick....a range of sizes.  However, when our slender sisters come by, we let them join us if they have a positive attitude and wish to party with NO discrimination!  You will find women of all sizes at our parties.  Everyone who wants to party and is over 21 is welcome.

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How can I talk to people who have been to a Club 249 event?

We invite you to come to one of our events and form your own opinion first.  But, you can also join our forum and meet quite a few people before coming out.

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How can I get on the mailing list?

You can join our mailing list here.  But, don't worry, your information will never be shared with anyone for any reason, and you can automatically unsubscribe at any time!

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Can I reserve a booth or table for a special event of mine?

Yes, we do have VIP areas that can be reserved for birthdays or other parties.  You can get the information here.

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What's next for Club 249?

We always have our monthly themed parties and we are also in the planning process of a weekend long bash.  So, make sure you keep checking back.  It's going to be crazy!!!

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QUESTIONS? When lit, The Club 249 is on Yahoo Messenger.